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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[This Impetus to do the Right Thing]]></title>
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<img src="https://rhodetour.org/files/fullsize/d1cf7db9db872866ce252609bfff6506.jpg" alt="Showing up for LGBT elders" /><br/><p><span style="font-weight:400;"><em>"Seeing</em></span><i><span style="font-weight:400;"> all kinds of people… people who were experiencing human anguish and confusion and hurt. They had the courage to look at what and where they wanted to be in their lives. I help shepherd them where they want to grow to their best self."</span></i><span style="font-weight:400;"> – Freeman T. Freeman  </p><span style="font-weight:400;">Freeman Thomas Freeman was 75 years old and retired when he moved to Rhode Island as an LGBTQ elder with his husband in 2014. To build connections with the LBGTQ community in a new area and to face new challenges for him and his community, Freeman decided to volunteer at SAGE-RI (Service and Advocacy for Gay Elders RI), now known as Pride in Aging RI. He joined others to advocate, teach about and support the needs and concerns of LGBTQ elders aging alone. </p><span style="font-weight:400;">Born in Dover, Delaware, in 1939, Freeman was one of 16 living children. After graduating from the University of Delaware, he moved to Rochester, New York, where he met his husband. Together, they parented his nephew Charles from the age of five through adulthood. As he was raised in a segregated town, Freeman found it difficult raising an African-American child within an interracial gay relationship throughout the 1970s in upstate New York. </p><span style="font-weight:400;">His advocacy work began at The MOCHA (Men of Color Health Awareness) Center and AIDS Rochester (the AIDS Center at The University of Rochester Medical Center) as a social worker and volunteer for the Buddies Program. In 1988, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) selected The University of Rochester Medical Center as one of the first research sites in the United States to conduct HIV vaccine studies. Freeman volunteered to be a trial patient for the vaccine, and what began as a four-year commitment to regular blood work and interviews turned into a decade-long experiment. </p><span style="font-weight:400;">According to Freeman, “When I talked to my Black friends, they were horrified that I was doing this given the history of how the medical community had treated Black people in the past,” but he felt difficult times called for difficult decisions. Still, when he tried to recruit volunteers from the Black community, he would “be thrown out and called all kinds of names and [experienced] abusive behaviors because it was just…such strong condemnation of my participation in… these kinds of vaccine trials.” When a local paper in Rochester interviewed Freeman about his involvement in the trials, he lost friends, associates, and clients.</p><span style="font-weight:400;">After moving to RI and becoming a volunteer at Pride in Aging RI, Freeman’s offerings included building programs, joining the board, and helping to organize a conference. LGBTQ elders experience unique needs and issues; according to Freeman, “LGBTQ elders have been separated from their families or have no children and so as we get older, what do we do about long term care?” To address this, Freeman and his colleagues “asked gay elders to look at conversations about funeral arrangements, about social isolation, about who they considered as family, about abusive behaviors that they were enduring from friends and other people.” Pride in Aging RI also hosted training sessions for students in the medical field on how to treat gay elders, as LGBTQ elders still find it difficult to navigate the medical sector and interact with staff.</p><span style="font-weight:400;">Since moving to Rhode Island, Freeman has become an invaluable advocate for the community of LGBTQ elders, another chapter in a life of service to others: “I am honored and thankful [for] whatever this thing in the universe that gave me this impetus and this wanting to be helpful to other people.”</span></p><p><em><strong><a href="https://rhodetour.org/items/show/439">For more (including 2 images) view the original article</a></strong></em></p>]]></summary>
    <published>2024-10-31T05:55:33+00:00</published>
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    <title type="html"><![CDATA[A Revolutionary Nonbinary Prophet: Public Universal Friend]]></title>
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>After nearly dying of typhus in 1776, they returned with a message.</em></strong></p><img src="https://rhodetour.org/files/fullsize/0cf83a03473ffafff9c9c88d9cc574f2.jpg" alt="Portrait of Public Universal Friend" /><br/><p><span style="font-weight:400;">“The heavens were open’d And She saw too Archangels descending from the east, with golden crowns upon there [sic] heads, clothed in long white Robes, down to the feet; Bringing a sealed Pardon from the living God.” In a note found in the Friend’s Bible titled “A Memorandum of the Introduction of the Fatal Fever,” Public Universal Friend described the vision they experienced that altered their life. </span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">The Public Universal Friend was a Quaker born as Jemima Wilkinson in 1752 in Cumberland, Rhode Island. In 1776, after suffering a fever, the Jemima Wilkinson claimed to have “died” and been reborn as the Public Universal Friend (the Friend). Through this vision, the Friend believed they were called to preach as God’s mouthpiece. The Friend immediately began spreading the word of their rebirth in their hometown and throughout towns in New England. Their powerful oration and stances on women’s equality and the prohibition of slavery created a small following, known as the Society of Universal Friends. </span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">While their beliefs were primarily standard Quaker doctrine, many onlookers were more focused on their androgynous appearance. After their rebirth, the Friend refused to respond to their old name, dressed themselves in androgynous preachers’ clothes, and forbade their followers from referring to them using gendered pronouns. One description of their clothing in 1787 describes them wearing:</span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">“…light cloth Cloke with a Cape like a Man’s–Purple Gown, long sleeves to Wristbands–Mans shirt down to the Hands with Neckband–purple handkerchief or Neckcloth tied around the neck like a man’s–No Cap–Hair combed turned over & not long–wear a Watch–Man’s Hat.”</span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">In addition, their tone and confidence were also considered “masculine.” Their manner of speech deeply compelled and sometimes confused their audience, who often speculated as to whether the Friend was truly a man or a woman. One onlooker wrote: “What she said, or of the subject matter, nothing is remembered; but her person, dress and manner is as palpable… as though she thus looked and spake but yesterday.”</span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">Of the detractors of their following, the Friend said:</span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">“They hate us without a cause, and thus evilly entreat us in the darkness of their minds, and in the ignorance and hardness of their hearts, for which my soul doth pity them, and even entreat thee for them, that if possible their eyes may be yet opened.“</span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">The Society of Universal Friends grew in Rhode Island and slowly spread throughout New England, as the Friend traveled constantly. Eventually the Friend expanded their reach to Pennsylvania, shifting the group’s headquarters to Worcester, Pennsylvania, in 1787 and permanently leaving New England in 1789. During their short time in Pennsylvania, the Friend was planning to establish a settlement in rural New York, which they founded in 1790. They named it Jerusalem. With frequent land disputes and attempts to arrest the Friend for blasphemy–both stemming from the Friend’s former followers– the Friend persisted in Jerusalem but struggled to bring in new recruits. The Friend eventually passed away in 1819 at the age of 66.</span>
<span style="font-weight:400;">The legacy of the Friend is complex, with some portraying them as a manipulative con artist, and others praising their progressive stances. While the language of non-binary gender identity did not exist then in the same way it does today, the Public Universal Friend is often pointed to as one of the first self-described non-binary people in colonial America.</span></p><p><em><strong><a href="https://rhodetour.org/items/show/437">For more (including 1 audio file) view the original article</a></strong></em></p>]]></summary>
    <published>2024-10-16T20:29:37+00:00</published>
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      <name>Anthony Boss&amp;#32;&amp;amp;&amp;#32;Janaya Kizzie</name>
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